During the last testing in Jiu-Jitsu we chose to hold Mica back. Daddy didn't see him working at practicing as much as he should. Mica was mad at us. Other kids tested that probably should not of tested as well. We're paying for him to go; to move up we want to see him working at it.
He's been working at it ever since. That's really the lesson we wanted to prove.
In some cases all kids get rewarded. Mr. Rodgers talked in his show about all kids being special. I do believe in that.
He also said, “I hope you're proud of yourself for the times you've said 'yes,' when all it meant was extra work for you and was seemingly helpful only to someone else." I know Mica didn't practice getting his second yellow stripe for only someone else, but he did practice extra hard to get where he wanted to go.
I feel like in today's world we're lacking in hard work. Kids often think they get something for nothing.
Sensei says, "A black belt is just a white belt that never quit trying." I believe in that to.
Can you see Mica's smile? He was proud of himself. As a Mom I'm not a super sap, but I felt like crying happy tears because I knew that Mica worked for that stripe.
LOL at the boy in the background that is bored.