Flowers on My Pillow

This is the 2nd week that Travis will be gone for an extended period of time for his art residency. This time he left on Tuesday night, and will get back on Saturday to help with some Easter things. 

The one that his absence is getting to the most is Isaak. Isaak is our kid that has a sweet and sour personality. 

I think he's feeling things he can't explain right now. Our children have always been good with words. Isaak has always said, "I don't miss anyone. I don't even know what miss means."

I asked Isaak for help putting groceries away, and he complained because Mica wasn't doing the task. Mica was in the shower.

I stopped and said, "If you can't stop complaining then you can just go to bed. I don't want to hear negativity."

He kicked boxes of JELL-O across the floor. He went to get ready for bed in tears.

I called him in to talk with him once he cooled down. He wasn't very happy at his own behavior, that he had to do something that his brother didn't have to do, and that I sent him to his room.

I walked in my room and there was this on my pillow:

I opened it up and there was ground cover flowers in it.

The next night I asked Mica to practice spelling words with Isaak. 

Isaak said, "Mica go get my spelling words, paper, and a pencil!" 

Mica said, "No! I'm asking you your spelling words. I'm not getting all that for you! It's your job." 

Isaak got really grumpy, and demanding. 

I told him, "Mica's right. You need to take some time to chill out." 

Isaak said, "But you told Mica to help me." I said, "Help! Not do. We'll talk about this after you've calmed down."

When I talked to him I asked, "Are you upset that Dad is not here? Is that what this is really about?" 

He said, "Yes" with a sad look on his face. 

I said, "Isaak it's ok to miss someone. That is calling missing someone. It's not ok to take your frustrations out on Mica and I. Do you want to call Dad?" 

He shook his head no. 

I said, "Ok. Go sit down to apologize to Mica for your behavior, and study your spelling words with him. I'll cuddle you after I'm done with dinner. 

I always wonder in situations like this if I'm handling it right. I know some people would say that Isaak needs a harsher punishment. I know that we're (as parents) always around for him. He's not used to one parent being gone a lot. Yes he needs to be punished, but he also needs positive attention like being read to, cuddle time, and board game time - things that he loves.

1000 Thread Set of 2 Cotton Pillowcases Review

One thing I have a lot of is pillowcases. Why? It's a simple answer really - Allergies. I wash the pillowcases with every load of laundry I do. 

I'm very happy to introduce you to Yorkshire Mayfair 1000 Tread Set of 2 Cotton Pillowcases that I got for review.

With so much washing my pillowcases either stand the test of time, or they do not. Having a high thread count certainly helps!

This is after we slept on them overnight. They got a little wrinkled on the edge, but I think anything would after being slept on. Travis' pillow is a chiropractic pillow, so pillow cases are awkward on it. It still fit. They are comfortable!
 

I love the brown color with our bedding. White, or cream pillow cases stand out like a sore thumb. 

 
I washed them in cold water before use, dried them, and they came out virtually wrinkle free prior to sleeping on them. 

They are not cheap: $59.99, but they are on sale for $19.99. The high thread count makes the cost up there. I'm here to tell you the cost is so worth it. They last longer then other pillowcases. They do not shift at night, and are comfortable to sleep on.

• 100% Cotton

• Sateen Finish

• Ultra Soft

They do have several colors available. I chose brown because it goes with our bedding. I love the color!

How often do you change your pillow cases?

 

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Travel Pillow Review

My husband is the one that always seems to want a pillow in the car for when he dives any sort of distance. I got a Travel Pillow to Review. You can get it on Amazon for $29.99, and it's on sale for $19.99.

It came in a travel bag, for when it's not being used.

The pillow has a valve, you can open it, and it practically inflates its self. If it's not all the way full, you can blow into it to fill it more.

On the back of the pillow is an elastic band strap, so you secure it to the back of the seat. 

 I didn't have my husband review it. Shhh...I'm giving him this for his birthday. Let me tell you it sure is comfortable.

It fits right where your neck is. The valve doesn't get in the way of your comfort. 

This Travel Pillow is Unique:

This travel pillow gives neck or back support for travel in the: 

• Car
• Airplanes
• Chair for basic support at home while relaxing. 

It is great as a customizable lumbar support pillow to give you extra comfort in office chairs, or anywhere you find yourself in need. 

• Low Profile - Relaxing shouldn't require you to feel claustrophobic. Relax without the bulkiness of traditional U-shaped neck pillows. 

• Self-Inflatable - Simply turn the easy-open valve, and within seconds your pillow will be ready to use. I did have to add extra air to ours.

• Full Neck Support - The pillow center cradles the arch in your neck, providing ample support right where you need it.

• Keep Your Head Up - Their unique side wings prevent your head from tilting, so you won't have to endure neck pain later.

• Strap It On - No need to lose that perfect pillow placement. Secure it to your headrest with our handy elastic band.

• Easy to Clean - Their fabric easily wipes clean with a damp cloth.

The Shape:

The unique, low-profile shape of the pillow cradles the arch in your neck--providing ample support right where you need it, and ditching the bulk where you don't. Unlike traditional neck pillows, the side wings of our design support your head from tilting, while still allowing you to interact with your neighbors. Best of all, its inflatable construction features a luxurious inner foam that gives support without a hollow, bouncy feeling of other inflatables.

Customers have also reported the pillow to be particularly useful for those with chronic neck pain and other spinal/neck conditions. Consider its use as a therapeutic neck pillow to reduce strain and provide ample support whenever and wherever it is needed.

My husband has both neck and back pain at times. I think this is perfect for him!

 

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The HeadRight Review

On Daddy's side there are back issues. Daddy is one that if he doesn't work out and stretch, he to has back issues. Sometimes it gets so bad that he has to pay the chiropractor a visit.

I got The HeadRight pillow to review. I knew right away that this pillow would go to the man of the house. It does take a few days to get used to the unique pillow. I think it takes that time to get used to any other pillow; they don't have the benefits that The HeadRight pillow does.

It is a unique alternative pillow designed to:

• Relieve neck and back pain
• Reduce tension headaches
• Improve posture
• Reduce snoring
• Makes you feel better and have more energy
• Improves head, spine and postural alignment
• Prevents forward head posture

Forward Head Posture is a serious condition resulting in damage to the spine and nervous system and is is caused by many of our daily forward head posture activities, which repetitively force us to use our head in a forward position. I really worry about this with my kids. Pillows are often too high for even adults.

Development

The HeadRight was developed by chiropractor Dr. Allan Weisberg with over 35 years of clinical experience in treating back pain, neck pain and spinal related disorders.

This pillow-system has 3 specific orthopedic supports to provide wonderful sleeping that helps correct, and totally prevents, Forward Head Posture.

Sleep positions: From back to side to stomach; while maintaining the ideal situation to help correct and totally prevent Forward Head Posture. This make you a healthier, more comfortable person all around.

Our Thoughts

• I do love the theory behind the pillow! It is developed by a doctor that has treated many patients with neck and back injuries. 
• You can use a queen sized pillow case on this pillow. While we have one, I do wish it came with pillow cases that would fit the pillow better.
• It seems to be very comfortable. I'm not sure about the long term results yet because we haven't had it for a long time.
• The cost is a little pricy. I am will to pay a lot to prevent issues down the road. It's $89.95. You can buy The HeadRight on their website, which I have linked at the top.

Disclaimer: The opinions on the post are my personal take on the product. This blog is a personal blog written and edited by me. I was under no obligation to review it if I so chose. Nor was I under any obligation to write a positive review. I did get products to help with the review.
 

   

I received one or more of the products mentioned above for free using Tomoson.com. Regardless, I only recommend products or services I use personally and believe will be good for my readers.