It's crazy how not too long ago he was in the hospital, loosing a ton of blood, and made it when he probably shouldn't of. This time he fell. He had a black eye, and skin tears, but certainly no one thought he would die. They did find that a vertebrae in his was fractured from a previous fall. He was living with that pain. Ouch!
On Labor Day we had lots of family over for August and September birthdays. Grandpa was there.
We giggled when he couldn't get out of the chair, and I had to push his butt to help him. The old man could help, but to fart when he got up. We all laughed. It is what it is.
He got up twice to get food. The next day is when he fell hard.
I got a text from my mom saying that he was having a seizure, which he's never had that we're aware of. The next text said, "TOD 1:41." Non medical me looked up "TOD" thinking it was a medical term. There are a lot of nurses in the family, so they talk in medical lingo a lot. After about 5 minutes I did a face palm, "Time of Death".
After things cooled down, I told my mom my face palm moment. I could giggle and cry at the same time.
These photos were taken this year:
What my Grandpa was like:
He loved to drive around after church on Sundays.
On drives he always had butterscotch, or coffee hard candies.
He'd drive around a fountain that changed colors and say, "Oh there's blue Kool-Aid, look now there's orange Kool-Aid"... Kool-aid was first made in Hastings, Nebraska where he's from.
He liked Johnny Carson, Dallas, Dynasty, Days of Our Lives, Football, Wrestling, and Baseball. I just remember because my parents didn't like any of those shows. Days of Our Lives wasn't a show he'd admit to liking. It was "Grandma's show", yet he sat there and watched it everyday with her.
We'd eat popcorn out of wooden bowls whenever it was time to watch evening T.V.
He loved to start fires on cold nights.
He'd rock the baby grandkids to sleep and sing, I've been working on the railroad.
Going to garage sales, looking for tools was a favorite pastime.
He built many things for us. Including a shelf for my doll clothes to hang, bucket seats for my sister Terra and cousin Brad, and wooden puzzle rocking chairs for my younger cousins.
He played football and baseball.
He was in the Navy and served in the Korean War.
He enjoyed traveling to Texas for the winter months.
He had friends he'd get together with to play cards and drink coffee.
I'll miss his smile! He's always been there, so it will be odd not having him around.
Ever since I first heard about your grandpa on your blog, I've thought he was an exceptional man. You've spoken so highly of him many times here, I am feeling the loss for you. I'm sorry your grandpa is no longer with you in presence, but I know his spirit is going to live on through your family memories. I hope you take comfort in the fact that he had a long life, well lived ♥
It's SO hard when we lose important people to us. I love that you have so many fond memories though! But I'm very sorry. :(
Sorry for your loss. Sounds like your grandpa was an exceptional man.
I would've done the same thing with the TOD text too. It would've baffled me as well.
I am so sorry for your loss... Losing a loved one is always hard and I wish there were words to make the pain go away.
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